The Biggest Illusion We Live In

I’ve seen so many people suffering and struggling to understand this,so I’ve decided to be that mirror for those who need it.

And if you are one of them, I’m so happy this found you at the right time.

The biggest illusion we live in is the belief that others can tell you how to live.

No one can. And no one is.

What you need to know is that only you can make it happen.

Only you can choose. Only you can change. No one can do that for you.

This is your chance — to be who you are, to become who you were meant to be.

It’s not about the question “Do you love me?”

It’s about the question “Do I love who I am?”

And from my experience, that is the hardest question of all —because the answer, at first, is usually no.

You want it from others. You want them to not punish you, not hurt you, not take from you — and to love you. Only then do you feel strong. Only then can you be yourself.

But that’s not true. That’s the illusion.

If you think that way, you can end up never loving yourself the way you should, the way you could.

No one will ever truly understand what you’ve been through — or why you do what you do —if you don’t understand it yourself.

So ask yourself instead: Why do I run from them?

Why do I fear them? Why do I trust them — and why do I leave them? Why do I?

This is your chance to see who you really are. Not by asking others why they don’t love you, but by asking why you don’t love you.

I know that people have expectations. But most of the time, they don’t call because they love me —they call because they feel guilty for not doing so.

Don’t feel guilty for loving yourself more than others. Don’t feel guilty for doing what’s best for you before pleasing others.

For me, it’s important to put my creative work out into the world. And by doing that, I feel even happier when I know that someone can use it —when it helps them feel lighter, release guilt, or end their suffering.

If you understand me — if you feel what I’m saying —you can follow me not by loving me, but by seeing yourself in me.

You see someone who loves me — me.

I love me for who I am, not for what you want me to be.

If you want me to feel guilty for not giving the help you need — and that’s why you hate me —then that’s not about me. It’s about you and what you expect.

That is your judgment, and it has nothing to do with me. You may think that if I am a healer, I should be able to help you. But how can I, if you are not ready to open yourself up to love and to the understanding of other people’s perspectives and experiences?

The need to be seen and loved — it’s not just about me. It’s about all of us.

You don’t have a need to love me. I have a need to love me.

And from that love, I’ve put this work out into the world. It’s about me, yes —but it also gives you a chance to see yourself,to find your own truth,and maybe, finally, to feel a little more free.

I feel this is a mirror for you — so you can finally see: Are you the one who loves, or the one who wants to be loved and seen?

No matter how it is, you deserve both.